You are not alone. There is space
for your grief.

We take supplements for the overall health of the body. Coaching works similarly.

As a coach, I am not here to give you Panadol — to mask your problems or offer temporary solutions. Healing is a journey, and it takes time. When you come to me with a pain point or challenge, I see it as the tip of the iceberg — the surface of something deeper.

With your permission and willingness, we can navigate below the iceberg together. It may be challenging. Yet it is possible. We seek a different perspective, bring up awareness, and shift your observation. The power is in your hands — and it is your choice to take action with your new awareness.

Coaching is not a substitute for therapy. While it can address patterns influenced by past experiences, if clinical support is needed, I will always help you find the right resources. Coaching and therapy can also work beautifully alongside each other.

Ontological coaching is rooted in your way of being — not just what you do or think, but how you exist in the world through your body, emotions, and language.

As your coach, I ask powerful questions that invite you to venture into your narratives, navigate through your awareness, and explore the observer in you. This approach focuses on shifting your observations — not fixing you, but opening up new possibilities for how you see yourself and your grief.

Every emotion is here to tell you something, and it shows up in your body. With a little pause, you can begin to listen — to your inner voice, your intuition, and what your body needs. There is no timeline in grief. Our goal is not to remove sadness, but to achieve emotional agility: the ability to sit with difficult feelings, and to move forward when you are ready.

Time alone does not heal grief — but what you do with that time can.

Many of us respond to loss in one of two ways: we either pack our schedule back-to-back to feel like we've moved on, or we isolate ourselves and go into avoidance. Neither extreme is healthy, because both involve numbing the feelings rather than sitting with them.

Real healing happens when you give your story a voice — when you learn to sit with the uncomfortable feeling and allow yourself to be authentic. That is not something time alone can do. It requires intention, a safe space, and someone to hold that space with you.

Coaching offers that — at your own pace, without pressure or timeline.

Grief is deeply individual. Even when two people share the same loss, they often process it in very different ways — and those differences deserve space of their own.

My approach honours this. I find that deeper things surface when each person is seen individually first — without the presence of another's grief, intentions, or love casting a shadow over their own experience.

For this reason, I typically prefer to see each partner individually for at least three sessions before considering joint sessions. This gives each of you the space to arrive fully in your own grief — and when the time is right, to come together from a more grounded and open place.

If you and your partner are both navigating this loss, please do reach out. We can talk through what would serve you both best.

No. Grief coaching is a forward-facing, strengths-based support model. While therapy often explores the clinical or psychological roots of distress, coaching focuses on helping you navigate your grief at your own pace and find a path forward — without replacing or diagnosing.

If clinical support is what you need, I will always help you find the right resources. Coaching and therapy can also work beautifully alongside each other.

Yes, always. The depth of grief is not measured in weeks of pregnancy. A loss at 6 weeks can be every bit as devastating as a loss later on — because what we mourn is not just a pregnancy, but a future, a hope, a child we already loved.

A pregnancy or infant loss from 15 years ago, or 15 days ago, is still a loss. Your grief is valid, at any stage and at any time.

Yes. Sessions are available both online and in-person in Singapore. Online sessions are held via Zoom and are just as warm and held as in-person meetings — many clients prefer the comfort of being in their own home.

I also work with clients across Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, the Philippines, and internationally.

A Discovery Call is a free conversation with no obligation. It is a chance for you to share what you are carrying, ask any questions, and for us to see whether working together feels right.

There is no pressure. Just a gentle first step.