Singapore & Worldwide · Since 2021
You don’t have to carry
this grief alone.
Compassionate, trauma-informed coaching for those navigating miscarriage, stillbirth, TFMR, IVF loss, and infant loss — wherever you are in the world.
My journey
I’ve walked
this path too.
I experienced three pregnancy losses — including the loss of my daughter Violet through Termination for Medical Reason. What followed was a period of profound grief, isolation, and searching for support that simply didn’t exist in Singapore.
In 2021, I started my training as a pregnancy and infant loss coach — not because it was a career plan, but because I knew the void that needed filling. No parent should grieve without a guide.
Today I support bereaved parents across Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, the Philippines, and beyond — as Southeast Asia’s first ICF-certified pregnancy and infant loss coach, with over 14 years of lived experience. I have been featured on CNA, The Straits Times, Sassy Mama, Mediacorp, and Channel NewsAsia.
“My angel babies guide my work every day. They taught me that vulnerability is not a weakness — it is the doorway to your greatest strength.”
I understand
Every loss is
different. All are valid.
Whether you are in the rawness of fresh grief, or carrying a loss quietly for years — this space is for you. Pregnancy and infant loss takes many forms, and each carries its own weight.
You deserve support that sees all of it — your body, your grief, your story, and your future. You don’t have to carry this alone.
I support parents through:
How I work
A whole-self approach
to healing.
ICF-certified coaching that expands your self-awareness and opens new possibilities — shifting the way you see, move, and act in the world.
An evidence-based, internationally recognised 7-session method to complete the emotional pain of grief and any undelivered communication.
Body-based practices that activate a natural release of deep muscular tension and trauma — calming your nervous system from the ground up.
Grounding and present-moment awareness practices that support regulation, clarity, and a gentler relationship with yourself.
Creative modalities including journaling, art, and movement to access and express what words alone cannot reach.
All sessions are held within a trauma-informed framework — pacing, safety, and attunement are woven into every aspect of our work together.
How I can help
Find the support
right for you.
Kintsugi Journey
A deeply personalised 12-session programme weaving somatic work, Grief Recovery, and ontological coaching. For parents ready to heal with depth and care.
Learn more →Essential Care Journey
A focused 6-session coaching programme providing grounded, personalised support for parents in the early stages of grief.
Learn more →Holding Space Circle
A bi-monthly circle for bereaved parents to connect, share, and feel less alone. A gentle entry point — no commitment required.
Join the next circle →Pregnancy Loss Journal
You Are Always In My Heart
A reflective and guided journal crafted to help bereaved parents process their grief, hold their memories, and gently move forward — at their own pace, in their own words.
- Thoughtfully designed prompts for processing grief and loss
- A meaningful companion for your healing journey
- A gentle, tangible gift for someone you want to support
- Included as a bonus in the Essential Care Journey coaching package
“Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is place something gentle in someone’s hands. This journal makes a beautiful, heartfelt gift for a friend or loved one navigating loss — a quiet way of saying: I see you, and I am here.”Shop journal →
Grief Recovery Method®
A seven-session evidence-based programme to complete the emotional pain of any loss — with tools you carry for life.
Learn more →Wave of Light Singapore
Singapore’s annual remembrance gathering on 15 October — International Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Day. All parents welcome.
Find out more →Client voices
What bereaved parents say.
“Vernessa’s coaching is personal, speaks to my heart and touches the raw points compared to just a generic coaching session. Vernessa often asks the right questions and makes me reflect instead of passing standard solutions. It’s like a healing session on top of just a coaching session.”
“I felt this coaching was different — more personal, as though it was a conversation with a friend rather than an authoritative figure diagnosing my situation. The questions asked were really good, certainly difficult to answer at times, but they helped me confront my subconscious thoughts and discover new insights.”
“I no longer question or blame myself for who I am today, especially for what happened with Una. I celebrate her visit instead. It was bittersweet.”
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