A Ritual of Remembering for a Loved One.

It is a 2 to 3 hour, non-religious guided remembrance ritual and grief support session in Singapore or online for anyone grieving the death of someone they love, including a parent, partner, child, sibling, friend or pet. It includes somatic grounding, gentle guided prompts, words spoken to your loved one and candle lighting.

No. It is open to people of every belief and those with none. You are welcome to bring a prayer, verse, song or cultural practice and it will be woven in with care. It does not replace a funeral or religious rites and sits comfortably alongside them.

When someone dies, each family member grieves differently and often alone. Processing grief together helps everyone feel seen, builds understanding between generations, and creates one shared memory of honouring your loved one. The ritual is for a minimum of 2 people, and families of more than 5 people receive 10% off.

No. It is a guided grief ritual and grief support session led by an ICF certified coach and Advanced Grief Recovery Specialist®, not counselling or therapy. Many people use it alongside grief counselling, bereavement support groups or hospice bereavement services in Singapore.

Grief has no fixed timeline and does not move neatly through stages. It helps to let feelings be expressed rather than pushed down, to care for the body through breath and rest, to say what was left unsaid, for example in a letter, and to remember your loved one with others. The ritual brings these together in one gentle, supported space.

Children grieve too, often through play, drawing and questions rather than words. Use simple, honest language, include them in remembering, and let them see that adults grieve too. The ritual gently includes children through drawing and candle lighting.

After a gentle grounding, I guide your family with simple prompts to remember your loved one and to name what is in your heart, including the words that were never said. There is no need to be good with words; a few simple lines are enough. Each person then speaks to their loved one, witnessed by the family, before we let go of the pain together by candlelight.

Yes. Pet loss is real grief and is often not acknowledged by others. The ritual can honour a dog, cat or any animal companion, and you are welcome to bring a photo or their favourite item.

Yes. Grief often begins before a death, when a loved one is diagnosed with a terminal illness or is in palliative care. A ritual can give family members space to express love, fear and what they want to say, and can also be held after the death.

Sudden loss often leaves no chance to say goodbye. The ritual offers a gentle, grounded space to say what was left unsaid, at your own pace. It is not crisis support or therapy. If you are in crisis in Singapore, please call the Samaritans of Singapore 24 hour hotline at 1767.

There is no wrong time. Families often choose a moment after the funeral, the birthday of the person who died, or the anniversary of their death. Some come years later, when grief was never given space.

Many people miss a funeral because of distance, illness or family circumstances. The ritual creates the goodbye that was missing, in Singapore or online from anywhere in the world.

Yes. For people living overseas or family members in different countries, the ritual is held by video call, with materials prepared in advance.

S$220 per person, with a minimum of 2 people, for a 2 to 3 hour ritual depending on group size. Families of more than 5 people receive 10% off. This includes a pre-ritual call, the guided ritual and all materials. A personalised homemade soy candle with your loved one's name is available as an option at S$40.